Cindy's myspace entry july 3 and beach's breakdown

Re: Main Blog ~ Wed. Jan. 28th, #2


by Beach Potato Today at 6:04 pmThoughts!!!


I thought to pull this back up from the discovery section to make a few
observations about Cindy's myspace blog of 7/3 shy of 2 weeks before
they picked up the car & then Casey at Tony's on the 15th.

Thursday, July 03, 2008
my caylee is missing
Current mood: distraught
She
came into my life unexspectedly, just as she has left me. This precious
little angel from above gave me strength and unconditional love. Now
she is gone and I don’t know why. All I am guilty of is loving her and
providing her a safe home. Jealousy has taken her away. Jealousy from
the one person that should be thankfull for all of the love and support
given to her. A mother’s love is deep, however there are limits when
one is betrayed by the one she loved and trusted the most. A daughter
comes to her mother for support when she is pregnant, the mother says
without hesitation it will be ok. And it was. But then the lies and
betrayal began. First it seemed harmless, ah, love is blind. A mother
will look for the good in her child and give them a chance to change.
This mother gave chance after chance for her daughter to change, but
instead more lies more betrayal. What does the mother get for giving
her daughter all of these chances? A broken heart. The daughter who
stole money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her
mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised, fed, clothed,
sheltered, paid her medical bills, etc. Instead tells her friends that
her mother is controlling her life and she needs her space. No money,
no future. Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little
angel?

BREAK IT DOWN!

"from above" hmmm - angel
as opposed to grandbaby, babygirl, my caylee, seems like foreshadowing
calling Caylee an angel on 7/3 (note this is the same day she had a
huge fight on the phone that Casey's friend witnessed & Cindy then
sent Lee hunting her down at a club & Casey took off with her
friends)

"All I am guilty of" well
Cindy you're guilty for alot more than that! - but isnt it interesting
that Cindy was already feeling a sense of guilt, maybe because despite
Casey's deplorable theft of her grandparents money Cindy did put her
hands around Casey's throat & threaten to take custody of Caylee
BUT what she didnt do was listen to her elderly mother & let her
charge her with the economic crime she committed OR get legal custody
BEFORE fighting or throwing Casey out of the house as a counselor
advised her to do.
"...there are limits when one is betrayed
by the one she loved and trusted the most" for real Cindy? She has yet
to exhibit those limits!

"...without hesitation it will be ok"
Seems
to me everything Casey did "will be ok" that is why Cindy's life will
be filled with agony the rest of her born days - a definite &
distinct psychological pathology here

"But then the lies and betrayal began."
No,
Casey's lies started many years ago, well before she was pregnant out
of wedlock - Note it seems Cindy is timelining the lies to have begun
after Caylee was born as the excuse of why Casey started lying - that's
a boldface lie.

Also what is with this
"betrayal" hurt yes, disgusted yes but how is this pathological lying,
fighting & stealing a "betrayal" per se?

"This mother gave chance after chance..."
OMG,
yea we can all relate as parents to this but only to a certain degree,
we're not talking about coming home 10 minutes late or not cleaning a
bedroom here!! this is your problem - the inability to teach your evil
spawn accountability, respect & responsibility!! Judist Priest Give
me strength!
"...but instead more lies more betrayal" -
hello earth to Cindy do you remember these words? And you did what
about this? What are you saying now, o yea that's right Casey was a
good mother, she loves Caylee, she was very responsible, she's my best
friend blah blah blah SHAME ON YOU!
"The daughter who stole
money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her
mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised..." -
She admits here that her daughter is a thief & pathological liar as
well as is panicked as to what Casey did to Caylee - you know she knows
Casey was lying again & they could not account for why they havent
seen or heard Caylee or that any of her friends had seen the baby in
that 6/15-7/15 time period - Cindy is obsessed with claiming Caylee
here, disturbing to know she definitely crossed the line of grandmother
to much more.
"Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little angel?"
Cindy is indicating here that she suspects or knows that Casey does not have Caylee with her - very compelling

I
could delve deeper into the significance but I think you all get the
idea - its no wonder Lee reported Casey said "Maybe Im just a spiteful
bitch" I think Cindy senses that Casey killed Caylee to spite her &
hurt her in the worse imaginable way & this is why she's willing to
forgive her because she sees herself as cupable for Casey's actions OR
Casey had the nerve to tell her mother just that to put her on a guilt
trip. Cindy letting this influence her is not excuseable & frankly
I cannot sympathize with a grown woman that cannot distinguish sound
judgment from recognizing her family in crisis yet did nothing
constructive about it!

I may be very critical of the Anthonys on
a whole but one thing I will never say is that despite ANYTHING Casey
went thru with her family, it does NOT excuse what she did by her hand.
A very simple example I use when I explain how someone knows right from
wrong....a toddler wants a cookie that is on the kitchen counter,
mommie says "No, not before dinner" but the toddler sneaks the cookie
when mommie leaves the kitchen and mommie comes back to see the toddler
with the cookie behind their back with a look of guilt - the toddler
knew at the very tender age & cognitive immaturity of 2 that taking
the cookie was wrong.

PS Not that it is significant but there are a few incorrectly spelt words...


Beach PotatoSuperhero (cape and tights included)



Posts : 612

Very well looked at at and intersting perspective. You hit it on the head. CA knew that KC was capable of doing somehting very bad. She could have stopped it by taking over, she did not. Caylee is dead at the hands of her mother and there is blood on CA's hands as well for doing NOTHING!!!!

Very well written and very much thought put into her blog. I think she knew a long time that Casey was not a good mother. She certainly was a thief and a liar. That alone would be throwing up red flags concerning her care for Caylee.

I have went through this almost exact same scenario with my now 38 year old daughter, my only child. Well, not exactly my only child as I have adopted her son, my now 8 year old grandson when he was 4. Most of her problems were with drugs, but the lies and the stealing played a part too. He had medical problems also and I knew without a shadow of a doubt that had I done nothing he would not be alive today. So I went to court, and by the grace of God, made him my son. I had almost always had him, but I knew she could just walk in and take him any time. I had also raised his brother until he turned 11 and he could take care of himself and then she took him from me. Today my son is a well balanced loving child who I live my life for. Sometimes, you have to do everything you can to protect an innocent child. And in some cases...it's not what you DO that counts...it's what your DON'T do.

oviedo45 wrote: Re: Main Blog ~ Wed. Jan. 28th, #2


by Beach Potato Today at 6:04 pmThoughts!!!


I thought to pull this back up from the discovery section to make a few
observations about Cindy's myspace blog of 7/3 shy of 2 weeks before
they picked up the car & then Casey at Tony's on the 15th.

Thursday, July 03, 2008
my caylee is missing
Current mood: distraught
She
came into my life unexspectedly, just as she has left me. This precious
little angel from above gave me strength and unconditional love. Now
she is gone and I don’t know why. All I am guilty of is loving her and
providing her a safe home. Jealousy has taken her away. Jealousy from
the one person that should be thankfull for all of the love and support
given to her. A mother’s love is deep, however there are limits when
one is betrayed by the one she loved and trusted the most. A daughter
comes to her mother for support when she is pregnant, the mother says
without hesitation it will be ok. And it was. But then the lies and
betrayal began. First it seemed harmless, ah, love is blind. A mother
will look for the good in her child and give them a chance to change.
This mother gave chance after chance for her daughter to change, but
instead more lies more betrayal. What does the mother get for giving
her daughter all of these chances? A broken heart. The daughter who
stole money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her
mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised, fed, clothed,
sheltered, paid her medical bills, etc. Instead tells her friends that
her mother is controlling her life and she needs her space. No money,
no future. Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little
angel?

BREAK IT DOWN!

"from above" hmmm - angel
as opposed to grandbaby, babygirl, my caylee, seems like foreshadowing
calling Caylee an angel on 7/3 (note this is the same day she had a
huge fight on the phone that Casey's friend witnessed & Cindy then
sent Lee hunting her down at a club & Casey took off with her
friends)

"All I am guilty of" well
Cindy you're guilty for alot more than that! - but isnt it interesting
that Cindy was already feeling a sense of guilt, maybe because despite
Casey's deplorable theft of her grandparents money Cindy did put her
hands around Casey's throat & threaten to take custody of Caylee
BUT what she didnt do was listen to her elderly mother & let her
charge her with the economic crime she committed OR get legal custody
BEFORE fighting or throwing Casey out of the house as a counselor
advised her to do.
"...there are limits when one is betrayed
by the one she loved and trusted the most" for real Cindy? She has yet
to exhibit those limits!

"...without hesitation it will be ok"
Seems
to me everything Casey did "will be ok" that is why Cindy's life will
be filled with agony the rest of her born days - a definite &
distinct psychological pathology here

"But then the lies and betrayal began."
No,
Casey's lies started many years ago, well before she was pregnant out
of wedlock - Note it seems Cindy is timelining the lies to have begun
after Caylee was born as the excuse of why Casey started lying - that's
a boldface lie.

Also what is with this
"betrayal" hurt yes, disgusted yes but how is this pathological lying,
fighting & stealing a "betrayal" per se?

"This mother gave chance after chance..."
OMG,
yea we can all relate as parents to this but only to a certain degree,
we're not talking about coming home 10 minutes late or not cleaning a
bedroom here!! this is your problem - the inability to teach your evil
spawn accountability, respect & responsibility!! Judist Priest Give
me strength!
"...but instead more lies more betrayal" -
hello earth to Cindy do you remember these words? And you did what
about this? What are you saying now, o yea that's right Casey was a
good mother, she loves Caylee, she was very responsible, she's my best
friend blah blah blah SHAME ON YOU!
"The daughter who stole
money, lots of money, leaves without warning and does not let her
mother now speak to the baby that her mother raised..." -
She admits here that her daughter is a thief & pathological liar as
well as is panicked as to what Casey did to Caylee - you know she knows
Casey was lying again & they could not account for why they havent
seen or heard Caylee or that any of her friends had seen the baby in
that 6/15-7/15 time period - Cindy is obsessed with claiming Caylee
here, disturbing to know she definitely crossed the line of grandmother
to much more.
"Where did she go? Who is now watching out for the little angel?"
Cindy is indicating here that she suspects or knows that Casey does not have Caylee with her - very compelling

I
could delve deeper into the significance but I think you all get the
idea - its no wonder Lee reported Casey said "Maybe Im just a spiteful
bitch" I think Cindy senses that Casey killed Caylee to spite her &
hurt her in the worse imaginable way & this is why she's willing to
forgive her because she sees herself as cupable for Casey's actions OR
Casey had the nerve to tell her mother just that to put her on a guilt
trip. Cindy letting this influence her is not excuseable & frankly
I cannot sympathize with a grown woman that cannot distinguish sound
judgment from recognizing her family in crisis yet did nothing
constructive about it!

I may be very critical of the Anthonys on
a whole but one thing I will never say is that despite ANYTHING Casey
went thru with her family, it does NOT excuse what she did by her hand.
A very simple example I use when I explain how someone knows right from
wrong....a toddler wants a cookie that is on the kitchen counter,
mommie says "No, not before dinner" but the toddler sneaks the cookie
when mommie leaves the kitchen and mommie comes back to see the toddler
with the cookie behind their back with a look of guilt - the toddler
knew at the very tender age & cognitive immaturity of 2 that taking
the cookie was wrong.

PS Not that it is significant but there are a few incorrectly spelt words...


Beach PotatoSuperhero (cape and tights included)



Posts : 612

Ovie,

I believe this, along with the 1st day 911 calls, is as honest as Cindy ever was. I think those 2 things combined tell the whole story and speak to motive. These - the myspace entry and 911 calls, occurred before the "save Casey's ass at all costs" campaign began and show Cindy at her most unguarded. These should be used extensively at trial.

The story then changed bit by bit once Cindy was further interviewed by Yuri and the media. Full court press began.