AMBER MACKENZIE SMITH - 3 Months - Reno NV

April wrote:Wow, Kiwi. I feel so much love right now.

Totally off topic - I think my son was "assembled" in New Zealand. Does that have ANYTHING to do with the water in the toilet going backwards? Love love love me some Kiwis. I have family there - kiwi cousins that live in Australia and London. I'd gladly add you to the family tree (if you'd let me, of course).

I'm kicking Trench to the curb... You have smilies.....

Admin wrote:

wolfcry0418 wrote:I am the childs care giver and have been around since her birth. I understand how everyone is feeling in this, If I heard about it like all of you I would be horafied, However I do know this family its a picture perfect family or was before this horid accident. they are both loving parents and would never intensionaly hurt this baby. And yes i can say that in full confidance because im arround every day. So please they have enough to get through leave them be. And as soon as its cleared in court you all will feel quilt for adding to the hell these parents are going through...... Accidants do happen and thats exacly what happend in this case.

Welcome, WolfCry. I'd like to point out, once again, they are the ones who came here, they are the ones who keep coming here. Terrance is the one who gave us Amber's name. Since you are a care-giver, I'd like to ask you how many times you've rolled a baby over by their ankle?

(Shaking my head at yet another indictment of the American educational system )

April wrote:

Admin wrote:Welcome April! Glad to have you, if we can help you with anything, let us know!

Thanks, Admin. Like I said, I am admin on a similar site. That fact, alone, tells me that we all share a similar passion - that is the anger we feel toward child abusers. I love love love this site. One of my writers linked this thread in ours, so I know you and I are sharing readers.

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention. If this is not possible, perhaps birth control is a better option than spreading your idiocy through genetics. Your child should ALWAYS be at the top of your list of priorities. Hell, my son is 9 and I will stop what I'm doing if he tells me he's hungry.

wolfcry0418 wrote:I am the childs care giver and have been around since her birth. I understand how everyone is feeling in this, If I heard about it like all of you I would be horafied, However I do know this family its a picture perfect family or was before this horid accident. they are both loving parents and would never intensionaly hurt this baby. And yes i can say that in full confidance because im arround every day. So please they have enough to get through leave them be. And as soon as its cleared in court you all will feel quilt for adding to the hell these parents are going through...... Accidants do happen and thats exacly what happend in this case.

April wrote:

Admin wrote:Welcome April! Glad to have you, if we can help you with anything, let us know!

Thanks, Admin. Like I said, I am admin on a similar site. That fact, alone, tells me that we all share a similar passion - that is the anger we feel toward child abusers. I love love love this site. One of my writers linked this thread in ours, so I know you and I are sharing readers.

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention. If this is not possible, perhaps birth control is a better option than spreading your idiocy through genetics. Your child should ALWAYS be at the top of your list of priorities. Hell, my son is 9 and I will stop what I'm doing if he tells me he's hungry.

lovingmy9 wrote:

April wrote:

Admin wrote:Welcome April! Glad to have you, if we can help you with anything, let us know!

Thanks, Admin. Like I said, I am admin on a similar site. That fact, alone, tells me that we all share a similar passion - that is the anger we feel toward child abusers. I love love love this site. One of my writers linked this thread in ours, so I know you and I are sharing readers.

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention. If this is not possible, perhaps birth control is a better option than spreading your idiocy through genetics. Your child should ALWAYS be at the top of your list of priorities. Hell, my son is 9 and I will stop what I'm doing if he tells me he's hungry.

I too am very passionate about child abuse and all that surrounds the subject. April we all know you rock and how passionate you are about these unnecessary issues and stories that so often surround us and hurt those that are most innocent, our children, our future. I wont leave my 5 and a half month old daughter alone for 2 seconds let alone put her in a car seat on the couch, fastened or unfastened with a bottle propped up in her mouth and all I have is a tender cat, whom I wont let near her yet for many reasons, sorry but WTH? This story screams out so much ignorance its pathetic. Starting with the father who came here like an angry beast, mother who is blinded by who knows what, a care giver who is there supposedly all the time but was not there when "it" happened and friends neighbors and roommates, who all state that these two are wonderful parents, 3 months is not long enough to label you as a perfect wonderful parent or whatever the words they used were. The bottom line is, baby was with the father when the fracture happened, he knows what REALLY happened and he will have to live with that whether he is found innocent or guilty.

April thanks for leading me to this site again, I've been here before many times but never commented but as always your words inspire me to get on the band wagon and scream, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG HERE!!!!

Oh and I love the little smilies......

April wrote:

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention.

Southern Lady wrote:

April wrote:

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention.

April! Most excellent to see you at yet another site. Yes, I've lurked here for some time but joined today when I saw your name. Keep it up, girlfriend.

I raised 3 myself and NO. I did not prop bottles into their mouths, mainly because I was aware that it could rot their baby teeth. I truly despise generalizations, "everyone does it". No. Not true. And no, my family was not perfect, but NOT ONCE were my children injured by their father or me. Something is not ringing right in Amber's scenario.

Admin wrote:

Welcome Southern Lady....I meant to tell April to feel free to link her site here....I'll probably start a thread for links, but meanwhile, post it here so we can combine efforts.

Southern Lady wrote:

Admin wrote:

Welcome Southern Lady....I meant to tell April to feel free to link her site here....I'll probably start a thread for links, but meanwhile, post it here so we can combine efforts.

Awfully sweet of you. I've known April for a couple of years, and we just happened here by coincidence. Doesn't matter. We find each other every other site because we both fight for the same cause, to speak for the victims abused and molested without voice. And don't mind me. I'm a lurker on blogs but actually fight the battle in real life. I was raised in Alabama, now live in Africa and see injustice every other day. We will educate and enlighten those who are unaware, we lurkers. Sure, fuss at me for lurking April but you know I do more good in my every day life then most dream in a lifetime, yes?
Oh, and her site is one that Trench runs. We should all be aware of http://www.badbreeders.net yes? We all fight for the same cause, people. And this one in particular needs some attention. Something is not quite ringing right.

Admin wrote:Sure, I'd LOVE to talk to your lawyer about it. I'd also like to talk to you, Pamela, about that TPO you filed on Dec. 2., against your husband, on behalf of you and your baby.

http://www.ccwashoe.com/public/ck_public_qry_doct.cp_dktrpt_frames?backto=P&case_id=FV10-04381&begin_date=&end_date=

MehMehofMine wrote:oh. and my neighbor was at the door to return my car keys after i let her use the car to take her kids to school.

MehMehofMine wrote:ok. well it seems like this can go back and forth forever. that is my take on what happened. like i said i was asleep. sorry if me sleeping (after recent hospital trips for me mind you) bothers people. i think it is wrong to say new moms cant sleep. what is the point of us having partners if not to help. i can not keep up with all the questions as i did not witness what happened. amber is doing well thanks for finally asking. i may be young but i dont like being told that makes me any less of a good parent. this is my final post. thank you for raising awareness. to those that actually listened thanks for hearing me out. this is a tragic accident that should not have happened. but it happened to my daughter and my family. speculate and assume all you want but i know what is happening now better then anyone. straight from the mouths of doctors. this has been explained to me directly. i cant make you understand. but if you can put yourself in my shoes. my world fell apart while i was sleeping. im sorry if i seem on edge but that is because my heart is broken in so many ways. have a merry christmas. i wish i could

April wrote:

Admin wrote:Welcome April! Glad to have you, if we can help you with anything, let us know!

Thanks, Admin. Like I said, I am admin on a similar site. That fact, alone, tells me that we all share a similar passion - that is the anger we feel toward child abusers. I love love love this site. One of my writers linked this thread in ours, so I know you and I are sharing readers.

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention. If this is not possible, perhaps birth control is a better option than spreading your idiocy through genetics. Your child should ALWAYS be at the top of your list of priorities. Hell, my son is 9 and I will stop what I'm doing if he tells me he's hungry.

lovingmy9 wrote:

April wrote:

Admin wrote:Welcome April! Glad to have you, if we can help you with anything, let us know!

Thanks, Admin. Like I said, I am admin on a similar site. That fact, alone, tells me that we all share a similar passion - that is the anger we feel toward child abusers. I love love love this site. One of my writers linked this thread in ours, so I know you and I are sharing readers.

As for the bottle propping - NO!! Not everyone does that! It's lazy and moronic, at best. Nothing should be more important than feeding your child. Stop what you are doing and give the infant your undivided attention. If this is not possible, perhaps birth control is a better option than spreading your idiocy through genetics. Your child should ALWAYS be at the top of your list of priorities. Hell, my son is 9 and I will stop what I'm doing if he tells me he's hungry.

I too am very passionate about child abuse and all that surrounds the subject. April we all know you rock and how passionate you are about these unnecessary issues and stories that so often surround us and hurt those that are most innocent, our children, our future. I wont leave my 5 and a half month old daughter alone for 2 seconds let alone put her in a car seat on the couch, fastened or unfastened with a bottle propped up in her mouth and all I have is a tender cat, whom I wont let near her yet for many reasons, sorry but WTH? This story screams out so much ignorance its pathetic. Starting with the father who came here like an angry beast, mother who is blinded by who knows what, a care giver who is there supposedly all the time but was not there when "it" happened and friends neighbors and roommates, who all state that these two are wonderful parents, 3 months is not long enough to label you as a perfect wonderful parent or whatever the words they used were. The bottom line is, baby was with the father when the fracture happened, he knows what REALLY happened and he will have to live with that whether he is found innocent or guilty.

April thanks for leading me to this site again, I've been here before many times but never commented but as always your words inspire me to get on the band wagon and scream, THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG HERE!!!!

Oh and I love the little smilies......

Justiceforamber12 wrote:I really wish people would figure out the truth. Me and multiple other people have heard Pamela say her child's leg snapped in her hand. This man has before took the rat for someone else. Terrance this shouldn't be going on. You shouldn't be sitting in jail because of her. It is not right. That child would be better off in your hands. I'm sorry but this is my opinion. I hate to try and tell the truth to people who are most likely not going to listen. But this is the truth. So believe me or not. I don't care.